Growing up in church, I always heard the phrase, “I don’t look like what I’ve been through,” and I used to think, duh… we all change. But one thing about adulting—time and a little age will help you understand why the saints ran around the church.
So much happened in 2024 that I entered 2025 with a clean slate. Unbeknownst to me, I truly needed a refresh. Throughout the year, I’ve been in awe of the unexpected opportunities that came my way. By God’s grace, I didn’t have to fight my way through new doors; instead, I was invited to step into new things. From performance opportunities to premiering two new works, I can’t take credit for what’s been placed in front of me.
One of my fears this year was my “security blanket” (my sister) moving away. I worried my social life would suffer, but instead I found new value in investing in friendships, serving at church, and being open to meeting new people at events. And guess what? Awkward moments are okay. They pass—and even if they don’t, we’re still here to experience them. I’ve learned that I can invite people into my space while still honoring my need for quiet and solitude. My people know I may not text back quickly, but when we’re together, you’ll always have my full attention.
As I close out the year, I have a short list of things I want to do. After The Nutcracker, we have about a month off, which feels like the perfect time to explore things I usually can’t because of my performance schedule. One of those things is picking up my camera again—manual mode, training wheels off, & snap. While most of my hobbies tend to turn into revenue streams, I’m really looking forward to keeping this one just for me… we’ll see how long that lasts.
This year, I want to tend to the seeds that have already been planted. We often talk about life like a race—running, marathons, sprints—and honestly, that sounds exhausting. Rather than rushing ahead, I want to invest in the joys and communities forming around me. No rushing. No forcing growth before its time.
Whatever 2025 brings you, don’t toss it aside. Invest in the seeds that have been planted. Uproot the things that no longer serve you—pull them up from the root—and allow yourself to grow at your God-given pace.
Happy New Year,
LA
“LORD, I have heard of your fame; I stand in awe of your deeds, LORD…” Habakkuk 3:2
La-Chelle M Dickenson 